Bebe Gandanghari - The Epitome of Gay-ness in the Philippines

Yeah, and mind you, she's also a new icon of fashion and glamour. I'm not sure about that one but I'm so sure that she's the "Epitome of Gay-ness in the Philippines". The LGBT also said that, Mr. Danton Remoto agreed about that. Nasa bus ako nun eh, napanuod ko yung interview ni Bebe dun show ni Jessica Soho. Mr. Remoto was also there giving his reactions about Bebe. Dun sa show, Bebe Gandanghari said that she really buried Rustom Padilla, as in tegok na talaga si Rustom as a person and as an individual, yun na talaga yung nafi-feel nya ngayon. Nung una hindi ko ma-gets si Rustom Padilla, why he transformed into an effeminate gay, pero nung nalaman ko yung childhood life nya, kuhang kuha ko na bakit ganun na lamang sya kaladlad ngayon. Sabi nya dun sa interview, her childhood was full of fear,takot sa dad nya. Nung bata pa daw sya, super pinalo daw sya ng dad nya after seeing him in a baby doll dress. Naloka yung tatay nya, ayun, pinalo daw sya. At that point daw, super na-confuse na sya sa identity nya as a person and as an individual. Identity crisis ito! I'm sure many gays here in the Philippines experienced or also experiencing what Bebe experienced when she was a child. Miski ako eh, na-experience ko din yun but I think I'm luckier kasi hindi naman ako jinombag ng tatay ko pero forever nilang sinasabi ng nanay ko na huwag akong umasta o kumilos na parang babae dahil panget daw yun. Hindi ko sila masisisi, parents ko sila. Hinding hindi ko rin malilimutan yung linya ng nanay ko, "Pano na pag lumaki ka, pag nawala na kami, sino nang mag-aalaga sayo?Hindi ka naman mag-aasawa, hindi ka din magkaka-anak. Pano ka na?". Grabe!Ang lakas ng tama nun sa akin. Para kong binato nang hollow blocks. Actually tama nga naman ang nanay ko. Super duper tama sya. Pero ganito talaga ako eh. Alam ko mahirap talaga maging bakla, pero dito ako comfortable. Yung linya din na yun ang dahilan kung bakit gusto kong magka-anak in the near future. Oo alam ko nakakadiri yung proseso pero keri lang. Hehehe. Syempre yung magandang girl na yung bubuntisin ko diba?!Hahaha.

Masaya ako for Bebe, for showing who she really was, take note, WAS!Matagal na syang bakla eh. I'm sure maraming nakaka-relate kay Bebe. From closeta to out, from confused to out, from paminta to super duper out. Yun na yun si Bebe Gandanghari. Kaya nga she deserves to be "The Epitome of Gay-ness in the Philippines". And yeah, I'm a fan of this bitch. :]